Today is..

the last day of May - the month of so much love and joy and holidays *pouts :(

Oh, so much love and joy not because its my birthday, but it just feels like so many events going on..

1st - Labour day aka HOLIDAY! *gleems
2nd - PH in lieu *double gleems cause no monday blues!
7th - Impromptu FOC Jolin's MYSELF concert *dance around
9th - Long weekend due to GE Voting Day - get an extra day off!
14th - Long-awaited-and-finally-here 小猪老公's encore concert *prance around in joy
15th - Heartwarming steamboat + bday celebration at yx house
16th - Nothing in particular, took leave to enjoy the long weekend because..
17th - MY BIRTHDAY = VESAK DAY = PUBLIC HOLIDAY!! *oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah*
20th - Time off from work *yeah!* to go down bridal boutique to try for photoshoot gowns

Okay, and that marks the end of May, the end of long holidays, the end of festive mood.

June will be here when we open our eyes tomorrow, and its already the 2nd half of the year. So, what have you been doing for the 1st half of 2011?! As usual, Im lazing around, fantasizing to get a windfall and whatnots. Heehehe.
Oh btw, to help me in my GSS shopping next month, Ive started working part time in MM/MC during the weekends. Sibeh tired can. But feels good to be back there. =)

Its photoshoot session next month le, and I guess after that, there will be more wedding stuffs to be busy with. Pray that everything will go smooth smooth please.
Btw, we balloted for Anchorvale Cove last month, got a queue number but its so far away! 427 outta 463 units. Chinese quota 391. By the time its my turn, dun even know if theres units available for us. But like that also good, cause I dun wanna reject again due to lousy units. Might as well no more quota for the Chinese, then at least I wont get penalized for rejecting. Its my 2nd time already, will kena blacklisted you know! :(

Okay, I gotta go back to work. Keep getting distracted at work, and cant seem to finish my stuffs. Bye!

Random Updates

Just updated the shopping sites and alil of the side gadgets. :o)
oh so personal and i like!

Wedding on the rocks

Okay, so I heard theres another 小三 story again.
This time, into a married couple, who just gave birth to a baby.

I dun really know this couple for a long time, not the best friend types. But good enough to be friends, who share some common interests. I encouraged her to go for the divorce, not that I am 'pai xim' to ask her to do this, but whats the probability that the guy will do this to her again after this one? 99.9% right? NEVER LET A GUY GO LOOSE, IF NOT WE WILL LOSE THEM FOREVER. I dun believe in craps like he will turn over a new leaf and changed for the family. Guys think with their dicks, when its itchy, its itchy. :(

You know, hearing all these stories dun make me feel good abt marriage, abt myself. We always pinpoint at the guys who have extra marital affairs, how abt girls who fall in love with guys who are attached, or even married? They are the normal ones we see on the streets, the ones we might even have interaction with. So what makes us (or rather, me?) different from them? We fall in love with guys who are attached too. Perhaps its just that we din dare to make that extra move which they did.

Anyway back to this slutty 小三 story. Lets call my friend Y and her hubby W. Together for 9 years already, from school times to marriage. Just gave birth few months ago.
Y found out abt his affair during pregnancy (like, really what a time?!!!). Devastated and cried throughout the whole pregnancy. At that time when I was with her, I still thought it was because she was going through emo period during pregnancy. :(
W said he love her, the 小三. KNNCCB.
Okay, wanna get divorce but somehow in the end, I dunno why nv.
Now, that 小三 keep telling Y on FB that W dun love her anymore, and say all sorts of nasty things that a slut will says. Y cant tolerate, and thinking of divorce now, but very confused cause of the baby, and W is hesitating on the divorce. HELLO, 你这负心汉，在外面有女人，还犹豫要不要离婚？NO, you cannot have the best of both worlds. CANNOT.

Hai, tell me why. BITCHES exist in this world? We were once so young and innocent, why did we all walk differents ways in life? :(

So I decided, I dun wanna be a bitch too.

我最親愛的

Part of the lyrics says..
因為中間空白的時光
如果還能分享
也是一種浪漫
關係雖然不再一樣
關心卻怎麼能說斷就斷

another job well done by ahmei. <3
lyrics = 林夕 ； melody = Russell Harris

我在想

.. Is there anyone out there who is truly happy that Im getting married?

7 May..

is a day where things are going to change.

Today is polling day. This is it! The day when everyone finally has the say, the day when the government is scared of the people, the day when citizens are NO 1.

Attended the WP rally on Thurs. My first time. I guess it was a major experience. Actually was just there to soak in the atmosphere, and wow, it was really HIGH. Everybody was like 造反了,疯了! I guess this is the only time whereby people like us can really oppose the government and do the things we nv dare to in the past. Naise, eye opener for me..

Today is also the day where 范范&黑人终于要终成眷属 after a good TEN years. 10years, imagine that, how many 10years do we have in a life? And Im really happy for them. Im amazed at how much 黑人 love her, Im amazed how can 黑人 still love her with all his heart after TEN years, Im amazed how they can still behave like as though they were like lovebirds who just got together. Their love for each other, earned my respect and blessings.

祝你们开心幸福哦 :)

最重要的決定

Exactly 7 more months down..

Into a new chapter of my life. One that all girls yearn for so much when we were young & innocent. Im now looking at it, not with the same anticipation that I had when I was still a young girl. Im not shunning it away of course, its afterall.. a decision that Ive made.

Wish me happiness. :)